Be the change you want to see in the world part1.

 
We live in this world rarely thinking about what are our goals in life, how to achieve them, and even what we want them to be. We are born in this world blind and weak ,through days weeks and years we learn about our capabilities we learn that we can control what we do we can live the way we want we can ignore people , care about them or even hate them.
We learn that we can act we learn that actions defines who we are , what we want ,we can just remain  silent and exert no force on the world around us, Like being washed away with the stream ,and let the circumstances  around us define who we are.
However we can step up and act, swim against the stream, holding a fight, and going for place we want to be rather than letting the stream take us wherever our chances may drop us.
choosing which type of life we really want is no easy thing, actually it is what defines us, what makes us who we are, if we humans had lived like a piece of wood carried away with the stream of life, restrained by our limited reality and closed imagination. I wouldn’t be writing this today because electricity wouldn’t have been invented, not to mention computer and internet of course.
Actually I recently had heard that mostly as humans “We are captives of our own identities, living in prisons of our own creations. “ Only those who break this prison, Stand up and gather their courage to face their reality have a higher if not guaranteed chance of making a difference. 
Making a difference .simple sentence in structure but one of the most complicated action phrases in every language .you can speak and be lectured on how to make a difference for years but if you don’t really want to , and take the right steps to begin you will certainly fail. I cannot say of course that I am the best one to talk about making a change , nor have I made myself, I can only speak to help myself before you to remember what making a change may require. 
Step 1:
“Be the change you want to see in the world.” can a doctor advice his patients to quit smoking while holding a cigarette?? Actually he can and had seen it firsthand XD .But that can’t be the case here, you can’t inspire people around you to change and make a difference while you are not. “A leader leads by example not by force” --Sun Tzu
Step 2:
“Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want to get.” One, who makes no mistakes, never makes anything.Neils Bohr defined an expert as a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field. We humans learn by making mistakes that is how we are made, none of us is perfect and we should not try to completely be. Doing one thing 200 times wrong is finding 200 different ways NOT TO DO IT in the future.